LJ Idol Presents:

I agree that Gary could write something about the nature of sportsmanship or drama or how to walk away before responding to things that upset us.

On the other hand I disagree with your assessment of spydielives being a part of the problem. I find too often in ljidol and even livejournal in general that when people disagree and voice those disagreements and even try to tell their own side, that people interpret that as "causing drama".

I also think that before we state that people need to be banned or that people are causing problems we need to know the whole story. I have not seen anyone do or say anything that goes over the line. If things are being said behind the scenes then the people they are being said to need to speak up. But being upset or people arguing is not going over the line.

Just my two cents