LJ Idol Presents:

*nods* I understand not wanting to cause drama or hurt feelings. That's never what I'm after: I very much like to get along with people, and it bothers me deeply to think I hurt someone. Which is part of why all the cryptic stuff bugs me. I'm sure I'm not the only one who gets insecure and says "is it me? Did I do something? What did I do?"

I'd always rather speak to someone directly and personally about a problem or hurt feelings (and either resolve things or not - usually I have good luck resolving problems by being direct, though) and then not say anything at all in public rather than reference things sideways.

Though I made it to the top 10 in s8, I was pretty clueless about any drama there, too. I tend to be a little oblivious about subtleties. So this is me saying "hey, if I did something shitty, please let me know. We'll talk about it." Clues and hints will always pass me by.