ext_35784 ([identity profile] clauderainsrm.livejournal.com) wrote in [community profile] therealljidol2013-05-08 10:16 am

Green Room - Week 0 - Day 2

The deadline is coming up in slightly less time than it will take for the internet to, once again, turn on the Onion! http://therealljidol.livejournal.com/649689.html So make sure you claim someone, and write their introduction!

I know that some people love intersections (working with someone else) and some hate them. But this isn’t a traditional intersection. It’s literally you writing something completely on your own. It just so happens that it is about someone else. (and given how many times your work is about “someone else”, it’s really not all that different) You don’t have to even contact the person, if you really don’t want to – just claim someone, who hasn’t already been claimed, and write something about them!

I know the bigger issue though isn’t about the specific topic. It’s about being an introvert, or just being uncomfortable in general meeting new people.

Believe me, I know the world of the introvert. In real life, I’m much more of one – and my girlfriend makes me look like an extrovert working on commission! In the last two years, I’ve been forced outside of my comfort zone as a result!

But I also know what social interaction can do for your writing. Not just in the realm of publishing, where it’s pretty much a necessity, but just in terms of getting and receiving the constructive criticism people need to get better. Heck, reaching out and working with someone is a built-in audience, and I don’t think there is anyone who would sign up for something like this and *not* want an audience! :D

The Green Room is a great way for you to get your metaphorical feet wet, by joining into conversations at your own pace. Most of the people don’t bite…. Um… OK… they do. Almost all of the people here bite. But many of them are on meds, so they are getting better!! Um… ok… a few of them remember to take those meds… ;)

It’s also a good excuse to grab someone you already know, and force them to sign up! http://therealljidol.livejournal.com/648417.html Sign Ups are still open for the next few days, so I would go get them now! Blindside them when they aren’t paying attention, and when they wake up, they will be one of us!!

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Happy Birthday to [livejournal.com profile] porn_this_way! If you asked me, a few years ago, if I would ever say those particular words in a Green Room, I would have said “No”, but hey, that’s her name!

[identity profile] roina-arwen.livejournal.com 2013-05-08 02:45 pm (UTC)(link)
Happy birthday to [livejournal.com profile] porn_this_way!

Today is my 20th wedding anniversary to the wonderful man known as [livejournal.com profile] knightaudit. I am SO happy he has put up with me for all these years, because I don't know what I would do without him!

We're going out to dinner tonight for Italian food with some extended family. Otherwise, no big plans. I'm wondering if he will surprise me with flowers or something at work, but as yet there isn't any sign of such, and that's okay too.

My metaphorical "feet" aren't wet - the water is all the way up to my waist at this point, I've been frolicking in the Green Room for so long! It isn't easy being Green, most of us manage to pull it off. ♥

[identity profile] tru2myart.livejournal.com 2013-05-08 03:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Happy anniversary!!! The 20th anniversary is china:
20th Anniversary Contemporary/Modern Gift:
Platinum. Platinum is strong and enduring, just like your 20-year old marriage.
20th Anniversary Gemstone:
Emerald or a yellow or golden diamond.
20th Anniversary Color:
Emerald green or white.
20th Anniversary Flower:
Day Lily.

•The meaning of a day lily is that of coquetry such as flirting, playful behavior towards one another.
If you want to give a rose symbolic of the 20th anniversary, here are a few to check out:

China Doll
Chinatown
Weeping China Doll
Precious Platinum

I think he should buy you a bunch of china lilies. :)

[identity profile] roina-arwen.livejournal.com 2013-05-08 04:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Goodness that's quite a list! I don't know if hubby will buy me flowers or not (but he called this morning and confirmed that he wasn't having anything delivered to my workplace) but I know he bought me a present already!

[identity profile] porn-this-way.livejournal.com 2013-05-08 03:34 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks, and happy anniversary to you! (Even though love has cooties. Eewwww.)

[identity profile] roina-arwen.livejournal.com 2013-05-08 04:56 pm (UTC)(link)
Lol - eventually you build up a tolerance to the cooties!

[identity profile] roina-arwen.livejournal.com 2013-05-08 08:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you! :)

[identity profile] halfshellvenus.livejournal.com 2013-05-08 05:04 pm (UTC)(link)
Big congratulations on 20 years-- I see many, many more ahead of you. :D

My anniversary comes up later this month, and may well coincide with jury duty. Unless I get lucky. :O

[identity profile] roina-arwen.livejournal.com 2013-05-08 08:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you! Yeah, 20 years... that's a whole lot!

Which anniversary will you be celebrating this month? I've never had to do jury duty, thankfully!

[identity profile] halfshellvenus.livejournal.com 2013-05-08 10:38 pm (UTC)(link)
This will be our 24th. Just one year away from the Silver Anniversary!

[identity profile] lawchicky.livejournal.com 2013-05-08 05:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Happy anniversary!!!!

[identity profile] roina-arwen.livejournal.com 2013-05-08 08:40 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you kindly! :)

[identity profile] similiesslip.livejournal.com 2013-05-08 08:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Happy Anniversary! I am glad you are so happy together :)

[identity profile] roina-arwen.livejournal.com 2013-05-08 08:34 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you - me too! :)