ext_35784 ([identity profile] clauderainsrm.livejournal.com) wrote in [community profile] therealljidol2013-09-24 02:40 pm

Green Room - Week 18 - Day 5

Time is running short, and I can already hear the vans arriving to get into this place to scrub it down during the off season.

I hope they brought a lot of cleaning solution. Some of these stains aren’t going to come out easily.

There is still a poll though -
http://therealljidol.livejournal.com/697433.html

and then one more that will determine who the winner will be!!

So, let’s start the final countdown celebration right now: What was your favorite parts of the Exhibits (A and B)?

[identity profile] lrig-rorrim.livejournal.com 2013-09-24 04:40 pm (UTC)(link)
*nods* I understand not wanting to cause drama or hurt feelings. That's never what I'm after: I very much like to get along with people, and it bothers me deeply to think I hurt someone. Which is part of why all the cryptic stuff bugs me. I'm sure I'm not the only one who gets insecure and says "is it me? Did I do something? What did I do?"

I'd always rather speak to someone directly and personally about a problem or hurt feelings (and either resolve things or not - usually I have good luck resolving problems by being direct, though) and then not say anything at all in public rather than reference things sideways.

Though I made it to the top 10 in s8, I was pretty clueless about any drama there, too. I tend to be a little oblivious about subtleties. So this is me saying "hey, if I did something shitty, please let me know. We'll talk about it." Clues and hints will always pass me by.

[identity profile] anyonesghost.livejournal.com 2013-09-24 06:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, in defense of ... well, everyone ... they all do listen to you. They may need to get their frist out of the way first, but they do listen. And because you Speak With Authority From, Yea, Atop The Mountain, folks get nervous when you mumble. ;-)

Of course, sometimes people don't listen regardless, so, meh. Keep doin' what you're doin'.

[identity profile] kathrynrose.livejournal.com 2013-09-24 06:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Speak With Authority From, Yea, Atop The Mountain,

tww-reference
Does that mean we have to go outside and turn around three times and spit?
/tww-reference

[identity profile] kathrynrose.livejournal.com 2013-09-24 06:52 pm (UTC)(link)
Hey, I followed instructions in my comment.

But when other people bring stuff up, it's fair game, right?

[identity profile] porn-this-way.livejournal.com 2013-09-24 08:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Sometimes the best way to make a point about the positives is to contrast with the negatives. /rationalization