Well I don't know about my only other serious ex...He probably would have played too. He was a writer before I was ever serious about ot. And he wrote creepy fiction too, so him and Java would have hit it off nicely I think :P

But James didn't care as long as I left him alone. He really had little desire to even talk to me, much less do stuff. So that's why I joined Idol...so he could do his thing, I could do something instead of sit at home...so he was happy that I was too busy to bug him to do things like you know, watch a movie with me or leave the house for once. But when he wanted to do something like go out of town, he would throw a tantrum and beg me to just give up on Idol already so we could live life. Or even worse, when he wanted me to clean the pool we managed, he wanted me to do it right then and there even as the deadline was an hour or so away and I could do it afterward.

But none of that surprises me. He always wanted precisely what he wanted when he wanted it.