As trite and ridiculous as it might sound, God knows what's in my heart and God knows what's in yours. Since you seem sore that I unfriended you, it was a direct response to your mentioning multiple birds which was a direct metaphor for multiple agendas. Your laughter post in your lj was told to me by four people. It's none of my business what you do in your personal space, though.

As an observation, I think that you are feeling upset that a comment you left that insinuated I had multiple motives (two birds) was interpreted as you judging I had multiple motives, which I think when everything comes down to it, semantics or not, was the truth of what you commented. If I step outside of my person and enter yours to get a feel for what you might be going through based purely on speculation, it appears that you may feel defensive in all of this. If so, I can understand your need to continue to comment back to my husband (he makes me feel defensive often and if he were persuing a subject with me in the way he has with you here, it would cause me to feel defensive).

I have no idea what you actually DO feel, though. As a human to another human, that's what I feel though. It's okay. I don't mind that you have your opinions, as I said before. If I remember correctly, I unfriended you as soon as you assigned multiple reasons for me to make the decision I did. Do with that what you will.

I wish you the best, I truly do. I just don't feel safe having someone on my friends list who may compromise my character or my person by way of looking for anything that isn't just simply on the surface.

I hope that this clarifies everything. Again, I wanted to step in to explain why I un friended you and provide you with some things to think about, if that's something you'd like. If you would like to continue to speculate about me, go a head. Do it here, in your journal, or anywhere else.

But, again, God knows what's in my heart and he knows what's in yours and at the end of the day, that's what matters.