Oof! Well I feel a little better about my situation; at least it's (supposedly) temporary. It's hard on me because my husband made the decision to take my father-in-law in without really letting me have any say. Not that I would have said no, because seemingly the options were "my dad loves with us" or "my dad dies alone in the street," since my sister-in-law has already taken him in once before and refuses to do it again (I don't blame her). I would have liked to have been consulted, though. Maybe we could have figured out another option.
Also, my husband and I are both very non-confrontational, so the idea of having "the talk" about setting a date for him to be out is like torture for us both, especially since his father is highly defensive in everyday situations, much less an actually stressful one. But that's more on us than him, of course!
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Also, my husband and I are both very non-confrontational, so the idea of having "the talk" about setting a date for him to be out is like torture for us both, especially since his father is highly defensive in everyday situations, much less an actually stressful one. But that's more on us than him, of course!